Light Message

The following is a conversation with my guides after my recent break up. I was wondering how things would turn out, if as he’s said he’s thinking he’ll move away, he’ll actually do it. I knew on some level it doesn’t really matter what he decides to do. And this gives more clarity as to why that’s true.

Opening prayer.

ME: Question: Is he going to move away next year?

His moving is really of no consequence as your life and happiness shall not be based on what he chooses to do. See he is an individual living his own true path and calling; when he serves his joy is for him to decide. If he does not choose to move or if he chooses to move should not effect your happiness or your emotions. That you are learning how to choose where your thoughts go – no there is a difference between denial and choice – choice is whether or not you decide to wallow in your perceived loss or if you choose to see the adventure in the life you chose to live. He has to discover what makes him happy outside of what others think or feel, he needs to learn to center himself in love for himself first before he can be love for another. He did not learn that lesson by the time you had completed learning on this topic. So therefore your vibration was no longer a match for each other’s. You see, in the scheme of life none of that even matters. Your trials and seeming deferment of pleasurable outcome is nothing but illusion in a selfless theme of learning how to live joyfully.  You see, he is not your enemy here nor has he done anything to purposefully hurt you. He is only choosing what he thinks is right for him right now.

ME: Is he using his intuition or was his decision to break up with me fear based?

Do you really think that answer is important to know? If you were to know it was fear that caused his decision would that make this any easier? Probably not. The reason behind his choice is not of importance. The point now is what are you going to do with it? Forgetting him is not an option but moving on is. So you will figure out the best way to do so. Baby steps and healing is called for. You’re a little quick to want to push away sadness or anger for the next best thing and that is absolutely important, but so is honoring yourself and the mourning process. See, the more you force yourself to move on and forget him the more this will persist. When a thought or reminder of him comes up: sit with it, embrace it, send love, then release it to the light. Systematically choose to do this again and again until the thoughts are just floating by as you watch them drift. See yourself addressing each one with reverence and respect. Hello and goodbye.

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